Here's why being #1 is exhausting
You want to be the best. That's awesome.
Being the "best" at something could mean various things depending on the situation, the person and (most importantly) the rules to the "game" (if there is one).
Most of us were trained to have a desire to become the best at something (or at least pretty good at it). We all want to become high performers in the field that we are in. It could be creative work. It could be repetitive tasks. It could be a job we love or a job we hate. It could be "I want to be the best parent!".
There is absolutely nothing wrong with striving to be the best. I do all the time in many parts of my life. I'm sure you do as well (at least I hope to some capacity?).
Now here's were it gets interesting...
In order to be "the best" at something, there's got to be competitive players. There also must be a set of rules in place to determine a winner who qualifies to be dubbed "the best" based on a # of statistics and outcomes to make it true. In basketball (for example) there are a set of rules, players and there is only one outcome. We can determine which team is "the best" (championship winner) and can take it a step further by determining the ultimate best by how many total championships were won (give or take).
Since I'm in the music industry, let's take a look at why this game theory concept is interesting in my field.
Sure, there are metrics like most albums sold, most platinum albums, most streams, most Grammys, most billboard hits, etc.
Here's why I think this type of game theory can't apply to musicians (or creative people that make art):
1. It's all subjective
2. There is no collectively agreed upon single metric to determine "the #1 best"
So, in theory, if we strive to be "the best" music creator in our field, we are playing a game that is impossible to win.
What happens when we continue to play a game that's impossible to win? We feel like we keep losing.
When we feel like we keep losing, we get stressed out. And then it's just downhill from there.
Now, I'm not saying that striving to be the best is all bad. We can use that Jordan or Lebron mentality to push ourselves to become high performers, which is awesome and SUPER beneficial! So let's be clear. I am by all means not saying that we shouldn't strive to be the best in our field.
What I am saying is this: don't obsess over it to the point where it affects your ability to live a fulfilling and abundant life.
In this creative industry, there will always be someone out there that is "better" than you or "has more _____" than you. If we live our lives based on this metric, we are bound to be unhappy most of the time.
It's a fascinating, simple and important concept to consider.
So what's the solution?
Here's what I think.
Strive to be the best YOU. Don't even think about it in a way where you are competing with yourself (I've said this plenty of times on social media so my bad lol). Become the best VERSION of you. Pay attention to the journey and know there is no destination of bliss. #1 in any field (especially this one) is temporary. There are ebbs and flows. You'll be up one day and down another. That's totally ok!
The only game you should consider playing is the game of joy, abundance and self fulfillment.
Let go a little bit. It all doesn't have to be so serious. The world is abundant enough for everyone to enjoy their own success. Customize your life and create your own rules.
Your game theory is inside of you.
Unleash your version of that, today.
- Illmind
Founder
Blap-Kits
Ramon "!llmind" Ibanga Jr. is a 2x Grammy Winning/10x Grammy Nominated multi-platinum music producer who's worked with artists such as Kanye West, J Cole, Drake, Kendrick Lamar, Beyonce & Jay-Z, Future, Lil Uzi Vert, Romeo Santos, Lin Manuel Miranda (Hamilton + Moana) 2 Chainz & many more. He is the founder of "Blap-Kits" and "BidPacks NFTs", a series of "beat-making" tools available for music producers which eventually helped pioneer the now multi-million dollar per year "drum kit & sound pack" industry. As a consistent advocate and voice in the music production world, his weekly Spotify podcast "Illmind Put The Loop On" boasts a die-hard music producer driven following, including industry special guests such as Boi-1da, Murda Beatz, Ryan Leslie, Russ, Brian Michael Cox and many more. He is also known for traveling to various cities, bringing together up-coming music creators in "secret studio locations" to network, vibe, play music & engage in their creative community.
How do I recover my lost cryptocurrency from an investment scam?
In the face of recovering lost cryptocurrency, a reputable crypto recovery agency, Captain WebGenesis offers valuable assistance to scam victims to get back their lost Crypto . To navigate the fraudsters’ intricate systems with ease, Captain WebGenesis is well-versed in the complexities of blockchain technology and the ever-evolving world of cryptocurrency. The technology boosts the odds of fund retrieval, offering financial relief and peace of mind to worried investors. An early engagement with Captain WebGenesis is key, increasing the likelihood of successful recovery.
contact the agency for help via address below..
Email : captainwebgenesis @hackermail. co m
Whatsapp/ SMS; +1(501)436-9362
I want to testify to what Dr Ughulu did for me. I did everything I could do to bring my partner back but he didn’t come back he was with someone else luckily I saw a comment which directed me to a very good powerful and kind man called Dr Ughulu that helped me bring my partner back and now he loves me so much more than ever i am so happy with life now thank you so much Dr Ughulu, I really appreciate you for bringing back my partner to me in my life, all these years has been very sad for me, now I have been the most happiest woman on earth all because of what Dr Ughulu has done for me. You can contact through his email: drughulupowerfulspelltemple@gmail.com or message him on Call/Text number: +1(252) 409-1841 or his website: https://drughulupowerfulsp.wixsite.com/my-site-ughulu
I want to testify to what Dr Ughulu did for me. I did everything I could do to bring my partner back but he didn’t come back he was with someone else luckily I saw a comment which directed me to a very good powerful and kind man called Dr Ughulu that helped me bring my partner back and now he loves me so much more than ever i am so happy with life now thank you so much Dr Ughulu, I really appreciate you for bringing back my partner to me in my life, all these years has been very sad for me, now I have been the most happiest woman on earth all because of what Dr Ughulu has done for me. You can contact through his email: drughulupowerfulspelltemple@gmail.com or message him on Call/Text number: +1(252) 409-1841 or his website: https://drughulupowerfulsp.wixsite.com/my-site-ughulu
I WANT A CRYPTO EXPERT TO HELP ME GET BACK MY BTC FROM SCAMMER
After the sudden and unexpected passing of my father, my family and I were faced with not only the grief of losing him but also the daunting task of managing his financial affairs. While sorting through his documents, we discovered that he had invested a considerable amount of money in Bitcoin—$500,000, to be exact. It was a shocking revelation, as none of us were aware of this investment. Unfortunately, my father hadn’t shared the details of his Bitcoin wallet with anyone, and we were left at a complete loss, unsure of how to access the funds.The realization that such a significant sum was essentially locked away was overwhelming. The emotional roller coaster that followed was intense. Grief for my father was compounded by the anxiety and stress of potentially losing his hard-earned investment. My family was depending on these funds to secure our future, and the thought of them being out of reach added a new layer of despair to our already challenging situation.In our desperation, we reached out to a friend who had some experience in cryptocurrency. They recommended Web Bailiff Contractor, speaking highly of their ability to recover lost or inaccessible Bitcoin wallets. I was skeptical at first, unsure if anyone could help us retrieve the funds, especially with so little information. However, we had no other options, so I contacted them, hoping for a miracle.From the moment I reached out, the team at Web Bailiff Contractor displayed an incredible level of sensitivity and understanding. They were not only professional but also compassionate, recognizing the emotional weight of our situation. This wasn’t just about recovering funds—it was about preserving a part of my father’s legacy and ensuring our family’s financial stability. They approached the task with a level of dedication that was both reassuring and comforting.The recovery process wasn’t quick or easy. There were moments of doubt and frustration, where I feared we might never see the Bitcoin again. However, the team at Web Bailiff Contractor never wavered. They worked tirelessly, using advanced techniques and tools that were far beyond my understanding. They kept us informed throughout the process, explaining each step and managing our expectations with transparency and honesty.After what felt like an eternity, we received the news we had been praying for—they had successfully recovered the wallet. The relief and gratitude we felt were indescribable. The $500,000 was more than just money; it was my father’s legacy, a gift he had unknowingly left behind to secure our future. Web Bailiff Contractor didn’t just recover the funds—they gave us peace of mind and allowed us to move forward with one less burden on our shoulders.Through this experience, I learned a lot about the importance of digital security and the complexities involved in cryptocurrency management. But more importantly, I discovered the value of working with a team that genuinely cares about their clients. If you ever find yourself in a situation where you’ve lost access to a Bitcoin wallet, especially under difficult circumstances, I cannot recommend Web Bailiff Contractor highly enough. Their professionalism, dedication, and compassion were exactly what my family needed during one of the most challenging times of our lives,WhatsApp
+ 1(360)819 8556
Leave a comment